How to Love a Libra: Your Astrology Lovecast
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How to Love a Libra: Your Astrology Lovecast

You would think it would be easy to love a Libra, but think again. Libras need attention and consistency.

Libra: September 24 through October 23.

If you love a Libra or you are a Libra, lucky you! Archetypically, Libras are even-tempered, gentle souls who hate confrontation and only want to make the world a better place (just like Coca-Cola!). Sweet-tempered and fun, Libras are the most balanced of all Signs in the Zodiac. You would think it would be easy to love a Libra, but think again. If you are going to win a Libra's heart, you must be attentive and consistent.

If you are romancing a Libra, or if you are a Libra wanting a certain someone to romance you, it's going to take a lot of intense courting to ignite a spark (thanks, Joni Mitchell). Libras, almost more than any other sign, appreciate the finer things in life and if you, the would-be Lover, aren't willing to offer up some love tokens or surprise treats for your Libra, she/he may turn away rather quickly. This is not to say you need to buy Libra's love; you can't buy (me) love (thanks, Beatles) but you also can't hurry a hot & heavy romance with Libra either (thanks, Supremes). As Diana Ross sang, "You just have to wait - love don't come easy, it's a game of give and take."  Especially so with Libras.

It may seem like slow-going, winning Libra's heart and affection, but the more attention you shower on the female, in the beginning, the faster this romance will heat up (weeks instead of days, mind you). Male Libras do not want to be chased, but they appreciate a rapid return on a text message - or a surprise text message now and then. (Don't overdo it, though; Libra might think you're stalking). Libras do not like smothering love - so just ignite their interest and keep yourself in the love game. If you are a creative lover, you will know quickly what interests and excites your Libra. If you are a smart lover, you will focus on Libra's interests. In other words, if your Libra loves art, don't offer her tickets to a soccer game. If he loves soccer, don't drag him to the Art Museum to see the latest Cindy Sherman exhibit. (Although in the case of Cindy Sherman, a male Libra might find he does have an interest in art).

Libras seem delicate and rather fragile, but they are much deeper and stronger than they appear.  They are also often artistic or musical. Older Libras seem to love opera. Younger Libras seem to know every hot band. This is an interest you can share with your Libra - loving their art and/or their music will move you right along in the love connection. And you might learn a thing or two about music. Libra is quite informed in this area.


Libras are generally good-looking or even great-looking. They project a certain ethereal beauty or comeliness that makes you want to take their photo and carry it around with you. Some Astrologers paint Libra as fickle, indecisive and insecure. Not true! Libra just wants everything to be right (a bit of a perfectionist) and for their lover to be someone they can look up to or at least share the stage with them. Libra loves drama - and also gossip (something to keep in mind), so if you are in the know, all the better.

If you have a disagreement with Libra, she/he is not likely to argue with you - even if you are a hot-tempered Aries or Scorpio. Instead, Libra is likely to withdraw from you and stay busy with work or interests. Libra will do almost anything to avoid a verbal argument - and that includes, quite often, crying or shutting you out for a time. I find very little door slamming with Libra. Libra is often slow to express how and why she/he feels hurt or disappointed. If you are patient, eventually Libra will tell you why she/he got upset.

I write psychic Astrology archetypes and this is what I know about Libra right now.  Libra may be as worried as many of us about the uncertain future. That means offering moral support to your Libra is super-important. Libra may whine a bit too much for your taste, but if you can bring him/her back into balance and wipe away their fears with a strong dose of optimism, you will be showing your true love and devotion. Libra will appreciate your wisdom and concern more than she/he can say. Do not let Libra's cool exterior fool you; Libras can be as passionate and firey as you would hope.

Here are some well-known Libras: Gwyneth Paltrow, Matt Damon, John Lennon, Sting, e.e. Cummings, Bruce Springsteen, Kate Winslet, Thom Yorke.

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Ranked #51 in Astrology

I had a libra and we got divorced

Ranked #1 in Astrology

well, perhaps you loved your spouse in the beginning -- divorce happens

I guess I'll have to find a Libra. The old "what's your sign" come on is never out of vogue.

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Accurately True! I wish people could understand us as easily as u summed up here.Instead Noone ever seem to be ready to know us on a deeper level or hear the problems and disagreements from us..and yet they blame us for being superficial. It's just that we are too careful to not hurt people we love and hence often keep the hurt bottled up than share. 'Coz we have tried and hence know that we won't be understood rather be just judged wrongly for a lifetime..Which ofcourse we dont want from our loved ones..
Only if people could really Listen and be honest to what we feel and want to say..they would find that we feel and are as deep in our emotions as a Capricorn cancer or say scorpion.. But sadly they judge us just for being positive brained people without even knowing us on a deeper level.